Buying a home

What a nightmare..............All these house you have to see first and when you find one you like you have to put in a bid...........then you have to wait until the real estate comes back to you with no they want to go to Auction......don't these people understand I don't want to go to Auction if I had wanted to I wouldn't have put in a bid before the Auction.

NOT HAPPY JAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!